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What are you holding on too?  by Danny J. Stevens

Day 35, Giants Steps into 2012

We are still dealing with the two reasons for either doing on not doing a thing.   If you have ever listened to Bob Proctor, of Life Success and one of the teacher in Rhonda Byrne’s movie, “The Secret,” he explains  that as we leave our old conditioning  and work towards our goal we  are uncomfortable with the new paradigm.   When we attempt to pass to living the paradigm we are faced with what Bob calls the “Terror Barrier.”  This is where it is more comfortable to stay in situation which is not favorable to accomplishing the new goals or dreams, and the current situation is likely not serving you and is likely holding you back.  Until your belief and the reality are equal you will experience the terror barrier.   On the other side of the barrier is the realization of your dreams or goals.  If the why is not big enough and or the belief that these milestones can be reached, then we will retreat to our old paradigm.

Tony Robbins states a similar concept.  We humans will work harder to hold on to what we have out of fear of lose (feeling pain) than we will to working towards our goals and dreams.   Imagine for a moment that you could not fail.  See yourself accomplishing the goals and reaching your dreams.  Take out your hard bound journal, what is it that you do if you knew you could not fail?  Write about your goals and dreams, while in this state.  How does this differ from the state you were in before?

Using the description of moving away from pain and towards pleasure, if we view the accomplishment of the goal or dream as pain  and the we still view the current state as pleasurable or even acceptable then there is no leverage to push us toward the attainment of the dream or goal.

Today use your journal to reflect on would you do more to keep what you have or to move forward with a potential risk of attainting your goals and dreams?  Would appreciate any of your comments or thoughts on this.

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