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Again there was no drive, it was not a must! The take away is that you must be emotionally tied to your goal or dream and it has got to reach the level of intensity that it must happen. There has to be the leverage such as was the case with improving my grades if it happened it would mean a lot of pleasure.

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If you failed in the past, it has no connection to the present. If something went wrong back when, it does not mean it will go wrong in the future. The prior attempts may actually be to your benefit as now you know what to look out for that gives you an edge.

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We are all controlled by the need to avoid pain and the wish to gain pleasure. This is the underlying make up of our thinking. What differs is what we link to pain and to pleasure.

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Opportunities are everywhere! We have learned to focus on things which we do not desire, want or wish to have. This focus blinds us to the awareness of the world around us.

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We may fail in the beginning but we learn and we are working towards a dream. The reverse is to die many facets of death as we regret what we didn’t even attempt.

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In reality, there is nothing good or bad about a situation or event but how we think about it. The way we will think about a situation is based on the primary questions we ask ourselves. If the question makes the situation bad, ask a better question!

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This is where you feel confident, sure, determined, bold, conquering and whatever other word which can describe a spirit which will move forward and not accept defeat.

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If you have not prepared yourself emotionally by ingraining the new paradigm when the doubts and mistrust speak, we may panic and in our timid imagination we will return to what is familiar and comforting, even if we know beyond a doubt that this belief keeps us in pain and misery!

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We use all kinds of excuses like; I need time to think about the implications, I am too busy to deal with this right now, I know it has to be done but it will not take that long to accomplish and you can add your excuses to this list.

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This sound like it would take great investment and planning. It doesn’t have to b e. It could be spending time helping out as a coach for the neighborhood sports activities. You might take you dog or cat, with the approval of the nursing home / hospital, to see those who are lonely, sick or frightened.

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